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I listened to the podcast with Ellen Langer twice and in the end found myself quite annoyed with her. She is basically saying, take a stance of ‘don’t know mind’ and then proceeds to ‘know’ about meditation and poo-poo’s it, isn’t curious and acts like the expert. Where’s her don’t know mind? I was surprised you didn’t challenge her more and I’m sure you have your reasons.

All that said, I have renewed enthusiasm for ‘don’t know mind’ myself and it is a joyful practice.

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This email just saved me. I was at the airport heading on a work trip and discovered my laptop did not charge last night. Tried several outlets at the airport and found something is wrong and I can’t get power at all. Went into panic mode thinking about all I have to do. Read today’s email on the plane and applied the tragedy or inconvenience suggestion. It’s a HUGE inconvenience but not a tragedy. I can now breath. Thank you

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Today’s email was completely brilliant in it’s simplicity! Is it a tragedy or an inconvenience? This is really going to help me.

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Really disliked this woman-dismissed meditation as woohoo without understanding it-strange for someone who is an academic researcher to make such uninformed characterizations. Didn’t really answer Dan’s questions in a thoughtful way.

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Love the podcast and the advice/question. Between "is this a tragedy or an inconvenience" from Dr. Langer, and "is this useful" from Joseph Goldstein, I think pretty much every situation is covered. :-)

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Love the simplicity of the question. Works for this knucklehead. Thanks

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“Cultivate..” one reminds me of the meme of "How Do You Do, Fellow Kids?"

That said, I’m fortune’s to have that opportunity of having multigenerational relationships. Grateful 😊

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